Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Holiday Regrets

When on holiday, our inhibitions are inevitably low. Afterall, isnt that what being on holiday is all about - trying something new? For example, would you get in your car and not wear a seatbelt? Most people would agree that the answer is a resounding 'No!' So why then do we freely get into a rickshaw, leaving common sense behind and often risking not only our lives but those of our children – simply for the experience of riding a rickshaw; to try something new and to try anything once?
So let me ask another question. When we are home, we go to great lengths to support humanitarian and animal welfare organizations. So why then when on holiday do we turn a blind eye to some of these (often obvious) violations?
I’m not by any means trying to imply that every person goes wild on holidays and makes conscious decisions to support an activity they would otherwise strongly object to. But there is no denying that sometimes we do – often regretting the decision once the euphoria associated with the activity is gone and the reality of our contribution to the consequence sinks in.
I for one have made many decisions while on holiday which I have later grown to deeply regret. Anyone that knows me, knows that I am an animal lover. Although I’m still discovering for myself what that means to me, it hasn’t always been the case.
When I was younger, animals to me were the cute, cuddly, generally domesticated beings. I loved cats, dogs, rabbits, tigers, elephants – but not snakes, crocodiles, sharks and stingrays. I’m ashamed to say that as I’ve grown older, I haven’t always grown wiser.

Indonesia
Photo Credit @stylefrizz.com &
@forwallpaper.com
When I was 15, a friend introduced me a back alley shop that specialized in made-to-order shoes… of genuine snakeskin.
As you enter the shop, the first room stocks all available shoe styles. Once a style is chosen, you then take this with you to the back of the store which stocks a few (small) aquariums over-filled with snakes. At this point, staff measure the customer’s foot size, examine the shoe style chosen and point out the snakes that are ‘long enough’ to provide enough skin for the shoes.

I bought nothing from this store. Not because of my beliefs in animal welfare (at the time, I had no strong opinions), but because the snake I had chosen was not long enough to provide enough skin for the style of shoe I had selected. Lucky escape for the snake I thought. But realistically, all I did was delay the inevitable.
I did end up helping my friend make a purchase... A choice I regret. 

Sri Lanka
Of all the animals in the animal kingdom, elephants are by far my favourite. When I see an elephant, I have a strong urge to grab onto its trunk and give it a big hug! So why the heck did I agree to ride an elephant at an ‘orphanage’ in Sri Lanka? On the surface, the place seemed fine to me – the elephant I was to ride seemed happy and healthy. We went for a short stroll around a nearby village. Sitting on the elephants back, I noticed others. One elephant was swaying side to side with her head hanging low; looking rather spaced out. When I asked the handlers about this, their answer was even more chilling, “She’s just dancing Madam – don’t worry.”

Why didn’t I ask more questions? Why didn’t I insist on walking around to see the elephants before paying the ‘donation’? These are questions that will haunt me for a long time.

Australia
Now, I know what you’re thinking – first world country, full of animal lovers, all very vocal about animal rights. I have just two words – animal farms.
A couple of years ago, on a holiday in Australia, I went to visit a crocodile farm. In fact, if you read down to previous blog entries, I even recommend visiting it!

"We are a business"
One would think the name itself would tell me about what’s going on inside. Frankly speaking I had no idea and this was largely due to my own laziness. I had no strong love for crocodiles. After all, they would kill absolutely anyone on a whim – even their own!
Although I still have no love for crocodiles, I do feel guilty about visiting the farm and by extension, supporting it? If I am claiming to be an animal lover, I cannot in good conscience support an organization that breeds creatures for the sole purpose of providing designer shoes, belts and handbags.

Still don't believe me? Google Greyhound Racing Animals Australia

Thailand
Al Jazeera recently ran a documentary on the business of animal trade in Thailand. One of the businesses it discussed was the Tiger Temple; a place I have visited. Previous to visiting the Tiger Temple, I had done a lot of research on the wellbeing of these tigers. I felt satisfied that they were well treated and well looked after. I did read a few negative reviews about the place. But the language used in those reviews led me to believe they were an odd case and perhaps maybe had held a grudge about something.
Photo Credit @dailymail.co.uk
I went to the Tiger Temple feeling quite satisfied that I was giving my money to a good cause.
When I got there, I got to see and touch a gorgeous little tiger cub. He seemed happy and quite playful. However, as more people stepped up to touch the tiger cub and have a photo taken, the cub became restless and agitated. At this point, its what the handlers did that angered me. They gave the cub a slipper to chew on while they severely shortened the metal chain which tethered the cub to the ground.
I started to question everything I had read about this…sanctuary. As I walked around the grounds, I noticed that the cubs were out in the open – seemingly innocently playing. The adult tigers themselves are locked up in small ‘rooms’. Rooms that I felt would be small even for me was I to live there day in day out – and I’m less than a third of the size of an adult tiger!
In hindsight, I should have researched the place a lot more. I should have listened to the negative reviews and recognized them for passion rather than aggression. I not only regret having visited the Tiger Temple but I also regret convincing my previously skeptical friends into visiting it with me.
To anyone considering visiting the Tiger Tempe, I would strongly urge you to watch this Al Jazeera documentary.


I’m not here to be a vocal advocate for animal welfare. It is something I feel strongly about but I do not claim to know it all and jam that down anybody’s throat. I have only one request. If you feel strongly about an issue when watching it on TV from the comfort of your own home, whether it be personal safety, animal welfare or human rights, do not abandon this sentiment just because you’re on holiday. Its tough to stand up for what you believe in. Having said that, what would be tougher? Talking to the next generation about the way things used to be or telling them about a generation that fought hard to provide a great way of life? 
This is my lesson learnt from my holiday choices. And i'm slowly learning to ask some simple questions like, what is this article made from? How are these animals cared for? It's not someone else's problem. It's everybody's concern.

What are some questions that you ask when you're out and about?

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

To My Darling Namira

Namira when rescued
You came into our lives unsure of your new environment; growling at your foster brother and generally keeping to yourself. You had no idea that from the moment you jumped into the car, you had taken up a home in our hearts and I in turn had no idea that in time, we would be your family - to be loved whole heartedly by you.

As your foster mum, I thought my goal was to get you out of a most dire situation, bring you back to good health and bring out your crazy Saluki personality. My job was to help you put your best paw forward so we; your extended foster network could help you find your forever home.

I tried to give you all the love I had. It was never a 50:50 love to be shared between you and Gibson. For me, it was always 100% love for Gibson and 100% love for you. That was always my intention and I hope you felt that too. I never intended to fall in love with you my darling - but over time, you made that happen. And I didnt even realize!

Namira catching up on sleep
I have slowly watched you become the dog you are today. You have amused me with your, "It's way to early to get out of bed mum?" and amazed me with your, "I think I need to pee mum - but dont get up. I'll ask Gibson where to go" looks. Its been an absolute joy watching you confidently meet new people and new dogs and its been wonderful watching you discover the beach.

I was never too sure how you felt about us. You always seemed so aloof. I remember taking you on your first trip to the beach. I was so worried you were going to run away - and I was going to loose you! From the moment you jumped out of the car however, you surprised me. You stayed close and came right back when called. My friends tell me thats very rare. That's when I knew - we were your family and you loved us.

I know what you're thinking. If you're so happy and I'm so happy, how could I ever let you go and give you up? The answer is painfully simple. Its my job. Its my job to find you the most perfect home - one that is even better than mine! I do this so I can continue to take in other dogs in desperate situations - and help them as I do you.
Namira and Gibbs - Making friends

Namira,

Please dont think you weren't good enough
Please dont think I gave up on you
Please dont think I abandoned you

Please do love life
Please do love your new family like you love this one
Please do remember us - but please dont miss us.

Please know that I love you and no matter what, you will always have a home with me - but I hope you will never need it.

After almost 9 months with me, you will soon be going to your new home and getting to know your new family.
I know you will have a fantabulous life and even though I cant be a part of every day, know that I will always be watching over you.

Until that day comes, lets share lots of cuddles, lots of runs, and many many "mummy may I please have a treat" big brown eyes moments.

Lots of love,
Your doting foster mum

I dont know what you're talking about. I didn't do it...

Nam in a playful mood
Cuddle time - Feeling needy =o)